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April 2025

On Starting and Finishing

I’ve struggled countless times to take the first step on a new path. Whether that was a new direction in my career, a side project, a new relationship. Typically it’s the big things that prove insurmountable. There’s a yearning inside to start but the path and sometimes the end isn’t clear at all. Between that deep yearning stands a thick impenetrable fog. A fog swirling with a nasty concoction of fears: fear of failure, fear of humiliation, fear of choosing wrong, fear of wasted time. A fog, which in my personal experience, only thickens over time as I naively realise the strand of rope left in my lifetime doesn’t in fact stretch out to infinity. The usual response is either paralysis or exhaustion from running endless mental simulations in a desperate attempt to clutch at certainty. I’ve demonstrated all these patterns of behaviour — innumerable times. I’m still doing it now even, as I take this break from work to figure out my next play. Slowly though, I’ve come to realise a simple truth. The fog never fully disappears. So the only way is to proceed through it.

There are two books in particular that sit by my side constantly and have been a tremendous source of encouragement. ‘Starting Point’, which is a collection of essays from Hayao Miyazaki, and Insisting on the Impossible, a biography of Edwin Land. From Miyazaki, I have come to learn that great things can start with nothing more than a spark of desire. It’s enough to take the first step with just that yearning I previously described. In the essay series “From Idea to Film” he advises up and coming animators on starting and says “if the shape is amorphous, you can start with a vague yearning…a certain sentiment, a slight sliver of emotion — whatever it is”. He goes on to reassure them that all the details don’t have to be known — “it is fine if, at times, the original starting point of a full-length feature film is the image of a girl tilting her head to the side…it doesn’t matter if the story isn’t yet complete. The story will follow. Later still the characters will take shape.” Meticulously mapping out the steps from idea to final product seems to be just a surefire way to fall victim to analysis paralysis. Sometimes faith is needed and I think this is what Steve Jobs meant when he said, you can’t connect the dots going forward.

Once you’ve started though, how do you finish? We all know too well that finishing is in many ways just as hard as beginning. From what I can tell, it seems to boil down to: accept there will inevitably be bumps in the road, take it one step at a time, and have faith ambiguity will resolve itself through the work. Working in this way takes humility and persistence. Miyazaki says “At times, your work may be rejected entirely. When I mentioned earlier that you must have the will to go to any length, this is what I meant. When you draw that first picture, it is only the beginning of an immense journey”.

Surprisingly Edwin Land is not that well known from my experience, but he is the inventor of instant photography and the Polaroid camera. The idea for instant photography came to Land via an innocent question from his daughter, “why can’t I see the picture right away?”. Taken aback, he took a long walk to ponder this. He describes the moment as follows: “I went for a walk haunted by my daughter’s question. And during the course of that walk, the question kept coming up. Why not? Why not make a camera that gave a picture right away? … Strangely, by the end of that walk, the solution to the problem had been pretty well formulated. I would say that everything had been, except those few details that took from 1943 to 1973.” The point here is that it took him 30 years to figure it out and no amount of planning could have resolved all the hurdles he was to face. The way he proceeded was just one single step at a time “it is a wonderful dream even though the end is a long way off, for there are about five thousand steps to be taken before we realize it. and start taking the first ten, and stay making twenty after, it is amazing how quickly you get through those five thousand steps.“ Miyazaki also encourages us not get bogged down in the salvo of ambiguities that will crop up during the process. You have to embrace uncertainty and move forward by doing the work. “what kind of world, serious or comedic; what degree of distortion; what setting; what climate; what content; what period; whether there is one sun or three; what kinds of characters will appear; what is the main theme? …The answers to all these questions gradually become clearer as you continue to draw….Draw as many pictures as you can.” Eventually, “you keep on coming nearer to giving the world something worth having.”

What’s become increasingly obvious to me is that certainty is an illusion. Everyone who starts and finishes seems to have developed a tolerance for ambiguity. It’s difficult to wrestle with because there’s no guarantee of success either to reward this effort and Miyazaki states it bluntly to the aspiring animators “it holds no guarantees in terms of pay or time”. How will you know though without venturing forth? The only guarantee seems to be that the journey will transform you. And perhaps, that is all we can ask for.

How do you manage the challenges of beginning and ending?